Me, neither.
Here is a refresher of the Salvation Army guide that takes White People through admitting they are racist pieces of crap and how they need to apologize to everyone of color:
“-Denial of racism. We must stop denying the existence of individual and systemic/institutional racism. They exist, and are still at work to keep White Americans in power.
• Education about racism and inequality. We cannot rely on our Black and Brown brothers and sisters to educate us about racism, White supremacy and the inequalities that exist because of it.
• Defensiveness about race. We have to stop taking discussions about racism as a personal attack and instead be open to hearing about our blind spots. We all carry some bias, and the only way we will get past it is to talk about it
-Stop denying that White privilege exists and learn how it supports racial inequity. You may not feel privileged, but it is likely that you have been excused from numerous negative experiences, as well as benefitted positively simply because of your Whiteness. Denial of White privilege keeps the current systems affected by racism in place, and we must begin to change that.
-Have an honest awakening about race in your life. Books like White Awake and White Fragility can help, as well as earnest prayer and completing this resource.
• Take a personal inventory on race and discuss it with a friend. If you engage a trusted Black or Brown friend, please make sure they have the emotional and mental capacity to handle this.”
Hey now! We give the field blackamoors Sundays off and let the high yellows work in the Big House whilst I sip mint juleps on the veranda. Ah even attended a broom-jumping just the other day and gave the happy couple a whole chicken.