“Did she choose to be abused as a child?”
We all have our demons. Making proper choices is how they are defeated.
If you knew what I went through before being adopted at a young age, you would scream. However, Biblical values taught to me by my WWII vet father have allowed me to be a functioning part of society and not a drug addict, criminal or murderer. He and mom were no excuses people. It is about time we start going back to holding to the truth, more so than worrying about hurt feelings.
You had the choice to not badmouth a dead person that was abused as a child,
and you chose otherwise.
Mentally ill people often don’t have the choice, thus mentally ill.
Luckily your crap doesn’t stink, so you’re all good.