[Mears]

This article is bull****………makes no sense.

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[stanne]

“This article is bull****………makes no sense.”

I read it as you’re getting the child to sleep for his/her benefit - doing what he/she wants to do, keeping him company, leading him versus you’re getting the child to sleep for your benefit - wearing him out, running him around in the stroller

Kids know. They can’t talk but they pick up your motivations

Love, Vs utilitarian

[Laslo Fripp]

We had four kids.

They all turned out differently, especially the twins.

I think it’s birth order that determines how they develop.