“This article is bull****………makes no sense.”
I read it as you’re getting the child to sleep for his/her benefit - doing what he/she wants to do, keeping him company, leading him versus you’re getting the child to sleep for your benefit - wearing him out, running him around in the stroller
Kids know. They can’t talk but they pick up your motivations
Love, Vs utilitarian
So if you use a utilitarian method you don’t love the child ?
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