You’re getting it wrong again. Never is any of that in a political, worldly context. Friends of the world are the opposite when it comes to God (James 4:4).
God commands us to defend the life He gave us. That includes firing back. The more people who do so, the better.
I hope you're also not hanging out with straight people who are having sex outside of marriage. Or divorcées who remarried. They're violating the same Commandment. Now, THAT would be choosing to be a friend of the world.