I fully relate.
After reading about the shedding, etc. I worry greatly about these shots that claimed my mother.
Being single, this is a big concern. And, no, I do not have a big no-go list. I only ask they not be married, not be a pedo or democrat (redundant), not cheat, abuse, or steal from me or family, open to God, and now I have to worry about this darn shot.
If I was to do it all over again....
I wouldnt...
...Unless she belonged to a traditional latin mass and wore the headcovering...those might be worth looking into. Otherwise, meh...