*** Very friendly good looking servers even get better tips. ***
I guess I met the first criteria back in my cocktail waitress days. But not the 2nd criteria, and my lack of tips compared to friendly girls showed it.
Customer drops napkin on purpose so he can goose the waitress.
Friendly waitress: “Oh, you naughty Rooster. I better keep an eye on you.”
Sockmonkey waitress: “I’m not picking that up. Pick it up yourself you pervert bastard.”
Once a customer put his hand on my belt buckle. Automatic reaction: I stabbed him through his hand with my very sharp pencil. Yep, all the way through it.
He was shocked. “You bastard, you stabbed me. I’m going to have you arrested.”
Sockmonkey waitress: “You touched my belt buckle.”
My boss, a great guy, threw him out.
MY wife was a waitress for 40 plus years.
Never in a place that served alcohol.
But I heard lots of stories.