Yep - it has weeded out a lot of relationships that probably should have ended long ago. The Great Winnowing as I call it. It has also led to new friendships with like-minded folks.
We were getting together because it was probably going to be the last chance we had. A few of the younger cousins asked if we were going to have masks, stay six feet apart and a whole bunch of other nonsense. I told them no.
They did not show up.
Their loss.
Amazing how people who were at the most risk showed up and those who were not, did not.
Happy ending. Our aunt, who we were gathering to say goodbye to, survived and is still chugging along. Doctors gave her three months. It's been two years.