I am getting confused.
I personally know 3 ‘transgender’ persons, for a number of years before they announced their real self.
All 3 of them are seriously messed up and that has been obvious for a long time. I avoid them. One was at work so I had to be very civil always because it was so PC there, but I absolutely refuse to address them or engage them in dialogue.
To be fair, they do not seem to have a problem with my very clear and deliberate indifference towards them, so far.
I’ve known one. He wasn’t that great looking as a dude, and putting on a dress wasn’t an improvement. I refused to use pronouns when referring to this person. I used title and last name.