That's not it at all! That has to do with following distance. You stay three seconds behind the car in front of you (at current speeds).
In the Northeast, there is a one second rule. If you fail to move within one second of a light turning green, you will get honked at by the cars behind you.
There is a heavily traveled left turn right before my house. It stays green for 15 seconds. If you sit for 3 seconds before going, you're a selfish prick.
Thank you for the correction.