Maybe she really will wake up, and see that no one owes her a life, when she does nothing to make a life for herself.
Maybe while she is trying to “educate” her parents, she could clean up the room they are providing for her. I heard her Mother in the background mention something about “living in squalor”. Her parents appear to be providing her a room, and plenty of food to eat (along with hair dye), Wifi, and electricity.
Maybe she could look for (horror of horrors) a job, and a few room-mates who have been mis-gendered by their parents as well. They could pool their resources, hire a maid (obviously needed) and no longer need those evil boomer parents.
Just a suggestion.
She’s a product of the victim focused current culture. Instead of overcoming obstacles, the cultural push today says everyone is a victim; and the training makes these kids not just helpless, but they seek helplessness as the currency.