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my relative is lying about race to get a job in my department
Ask a Manager ^ | 7-25-22 | Alison Green

Posted on 07/25/2022 8:42:13 AM PDT by Brookhaven

A reader writes:

A relative I haven’t spoken to in years is fraudulently applying to my department at a large university. To put it simply, this is a potential Rachael Dolezal situation. “Connie” is applying for a research and teaching position in my department. Her mother was married to my uncle for about 15 years and for 15 years I spent most weekends and every holiday and summer with Connie. We were quite close as kids.

For full clarity: Connie is white. She is not an immigrant, she is not adopted, and both of her parents come from white, American multi-generational wealth. There is not a hospital, museum, or major university in our city without her family name on at least one building. Her mother and my uncle got divorced quite a while ago, but our mothers are still very good friends. Connie and I lost touch as we grew up but reconnected on social media a few years ago.

When we were introduced in the interview, she pretended not to know me. During her team interview with me, two department chairs, and four other faculty, Connie spoke passionately about being a white-passing woman of color who has to confront racism daily, and how her past struggles with an impoverished upbringing as an immigrant in the U.S. have shaped her teaching values. I was speechless the entire time. Her resume is impressive, which makes me concerned she’s been lying to get certain grants/opportunities or that her resume is false.

The two department chairs were very impressed with her, a few people are neutral, and the rest seemed uncomfortable during the interview and passed on notes saying such. How do I approach this? I’m struggling with ethics vs optics: it’s unethical to put Connie forward as a voice for an underrepresented student population and an expert on certain racial and social justice movements and issues. My mentor (an older white male) told me to stay out of it because the optics are poor. I’m white, and I have had a privileged life that allows me to live comfortably on an academic salary. It would look like I’m attacking a candidate based on race in a predominantly white department. Regardless of optics, I would be complicit in this unethical situation if I didn’t say anything and she’s offered the job. So far nobody else has been invited to interview.


TOPICS: Business/Economy
KEYWORDS: dolenz; privilege; white
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To: fightin kentuckian

Hearing “Liz” and “lap” in the same sentence makes me a bit queasy.


101 posted on 07/25/2022 10:31:01 AM PDT by rlmorel (Nolnah's Razor: Never attribute to incompetence that which is adequately explained by malice.)
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To: Brookhaven

“her past struggles with an impoverished upbringing”

Dear Colleagues,

I believe Connie is a relative of mine, but I may be mistaken. It is my understanding that the Connie I knew lived in an affluent household her entire childhood....


102 posted on 07/25/2022 10:45:51 AM PDT by Brian Griffin
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To: RFEngineer

I think that you misunderstood my intent with my comments.

“So which God to you pray to to justify the immorality of affirmative action?”

I find “affirmative action(s)” to be as vile and evil as the complete entirety of the Communist/Socialist/democRAT Agenda. The individual in question should not have to wonder whether or not they should speak up about what their “cousin” is/was contemplating.

“Tolerating Bad Behavior” is something that I personally will NOT Tolerate. From anybody for any reason.


103 posted on 07/25/2022 10:57:08 AM PDT by Howie66 (Let's Go Brandon!!)
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To: Howie66

“Tolerating Bad Behavior”

The pressure in today’s world is from the left/Commie bastard teachers who stress to not be judgmental of others, no matter what they are doing. “Look the other way, mind your own business.” “It is OK to think that you are the opposite sex!”

This person has to ask our Forum for advice?

It is a code to live by, that you will not cheat or tolerate anyone that does. This code is to be applied in all instances.

When Elizabeth Warren applied for a job at Harvard citing that she was of Indian/Native American heritage, no one questioned that fact? Just because she was told that “high cheek bones were proof that she was part Indian,” did not make it true.

If I was King, I would destroy all applications that asked any question concerning color, race, sex, ethnicity, age, etc.
The only questions should be about education and experience.


104 posted on 07/25/2022 11:20:20 AM PDT by BatGuano (2020 = Stolen Election. Believe it! Molon Labe.)
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To: T.B. Yoits

Excellent suggestion.


105 posted on 07/25/2022 11:42:19 AM PDT by moovova
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To: Brookhaven
Idiot!   Talk to Connie in person and ask her what the heck fire is she trying to pull?
106 posted on 07/25/2022 11:42:28 AM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken)
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To: Sequoyah101
You won me over by calling yourself Sequoyah.

I've seen your printing press at New Echota.

107 posted on 07/25/2022 11:52:31 AM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken)
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To: Brookhaven

This sounds like the column author made it up.


108 posted on 07/25/2022 11:52:44 AM PDT by Albion Wilde (The “time out” generation didn’t produce as good a result as the @#$whoopin' generation. --Bob434)
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To: Brian Griffin
I believe Connie is a relative of mine, but I may be mistaken.

That is an important point. While it may be very likely that "Connie" is in fact related to the OP, she might also be the identical twin to "Connie" who was separated at birth. If you have ever watched those shows that locate missing relatives you know just about anything is possible.

109 posted on 07/25/2022 11:54:02 AM PDT by freeandfreezing
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To: Troublemaker
My wife was born and raised on the Crow Agency in Montana and refuses to put down race on any form (as do our kids). The amount of white people pretending to be American Indian has gotten ridiculous.

But with the Five Civilized Tribes it's usually true even when the claimant doesn't know it.

I had a friend in high school who was one quarter Choctaw and his Grandfather had been the Choctaw Sheriff in Broken Bow, OK.   His mother was a "Louisiana Creole" which only meant she could tan easily every summer.   He married a classmate of ours who's family came from the old world India, but they were and are both devout Presbyterians. Their slightly darker skin came from a few different directions.

My wife had a relative on the Dawes Rolls but when I finally looked her up it said she was one eighth and the Dawes Rolls were compiled three or four generations ago.   But that was a factor in my wife being drop dead gorgeous.

110 posted on 07/25/2022 12:17:05 PM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken)
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To: higgmeister

The first one in the territory was over at Dwight Mission.


111 posted on 07/25/2022 12:51:03 PM PDT by Sequoyah101 (Politicians are only marginally good at one thing, being politicians. Otherwise they are fools.)
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To: newzjunkey
Obviously she must ensure she is on point with that she’s about to say regarding this candidate.

How did you discern the letter writer is a woman?

112 posted on 07/25/2022 12:53:58 PM PDT by higgmeister ( In the Shadow of The Big Chicken)
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To: Brookhaven

It worked for Fauxcahontas.


113 posted on 07/25/2022 1:31:24 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith…)
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To: Brookhaven

What’s the problem? According to the current narrative, men are women if they say so, so why not the same for being black?


114 posted on 07/25/2022 1:40:21 PM PDT by packrat35 (Pelosi is only on loan to the world from Satan. Hopefully he will soon want his baby killer back)
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To: Brookhaven

The “reader” is missing the obvious: Tell the cousin you are not going to risk your career by participating in her ethnicity expropriation scam. You need for her to do the right thing, which is to bow out from contention for the job gracefully. Ask her to commit to doing so within one hour.


115 posted on 07/25/2022 1:56:44 PM PDT by Chewbarkah
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To: Brookhaven

Dear Penthouse. . .


116 posted on 07/25/2022 2:28:50 PM PDT by pilipo
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To: Brookhaven

If women can claim to be men, a white can claim to be black.


117 posted on 07/26/2022 5:03:20 AM PDT by ViLaLuz (2 Chronicles 7:14)
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