Posted on 07/22/2022 9:12:34 AM PDT by Morgana
Actress Jennifer Grey, known best for her role in the 1987 film Dirty Dancing, recently opened up to the Los Angeles Times about her abortion as a teenager and feeling “emotional” about the end of Roe v. Wade.
Teenage pregnancy and abortion
“When I try to imagine my own daughter at 16, playing house, essentially living with a grown-ass man, doing tons of blow, popping Quaaludes, and going to Studio [54] — not to mention being lied to, cheated on, then gifted with various and sundry STDs and unwanted pregnancies, it makes me feel physically ill,” she said. “No teenager should be swimming in waters that dark … .” Yet, these were Grey’s teen years. Despite this, as traumatic as it sounds, Grey claims to have felt empowered by her sexual freedom at that age and told the Times that she used birth control carefully.
But drugs, living with an adult male, and dealing with STDs and unwanted pregnancies are likely not what our nation’s first feminists imagined when they fought for women’s rights (which did not include abortion). It’s hard to conflate that dangerous and reckless lifestyle with empowerment. She admits she wouldn’t have wanted her own daughter, now age 20, to have lived her teenage years like that.
It was during those years, prior to her role in Dirty Dancing, that Grey had an abortion and she implied that it actually had a negative impact on her. “It’s such a grave decision,” she said. “And it stays with you.” Yet, she attempts to justify it.
“I wouldn’t have my life. I wouldn’t have had the career I had, I wouldn’t have had anything [if not for the abortion],” she said. “And it wasn’t for lack of taking it seriously. I’d always wanted a child. I just didn’t want a child as a teenager. I didn’t want a child where I was [at] in my life.”
Mothers and career success
The truth is that Grey doesn’t know what her life would have been like if she had welcomed her child. She assumes she wouldn’t have had her career or “anything” at all. But her life could have been made better by her child, something most mothers say about their own lives after having a baby.
Grey’s implication with this statement is that mothers are incapable of career success. Other women in the industry have proven this misogynistic theory wrong. Director and actress Emerald Fennell was seven months pregnant when she directed “The Crown,” and said being pregnant during that time “really helped” and “gave me this weird power for myself.”
Monica Potter, Shirley Temple, Naomi Judd, Solange Knowles, Niki Taylor, Maya Angelou, Aretha Franklin, and Loretta Lynn were all teenage mothers who became successful in their careers. Women have even won Olympic medals while pregnant. Countless women attribute their success to their children, who inspired them to work harder.
The idea of “unwanted” people
Even more troubling is that Grey was clear she had the abortion because she didn’t “want” a child and therefore, destroyed that child’s life. It is eugenic to label a human being as “unwanted” for the purpose of robbing them of their humanity, value, dignity, and very life in order to live the life you please.
The idea of “unwanted” people isn’t new — it’s been used to justify genocide for centuries. People have been dehumanized and called unfit and undesirable throughout history and those labels have allowed horrors to occur: the Holocaust and slavery, for instance. No human being deserves that treatment.
Abortion is still dangerous
The most controversial part of Dirty Dancing is arguably the illegal abortion obtained by the character Penny. Grey’s character, ironically named Baby, takes money from her father to help procure the abortion for Penny, but the procedure is botched.
“We saw someone who was hemorrhaging,” Grey said about the scene. “We saw what happens to people without means — the haves and the have nots. I love that part of the storyline because it was really a feminist movie in a rom-com. It was a perfect use of history.”
But forcing legalized abortion on every state in the January 1973 Supreme Court decision of Roe v. Wade didn’t end botched abortions. In fact, in 1972 (the year before Roe), the CDC recorded 39 deaths from illegal abortion and 24 deaths from legal abortion. By 1973, the first year abortion was legal throughout the nation, the CDC reported that more women actually died from legal abortion than from illegal abortion (25 v. 19).
While it is unknown how many women are injured by legal abortion each year in the United States (only half of all states are required to report abortion complications), there are countless 911 calls from abortion facilities that detail the horrors of legalized abortion. And it is still underprivileged women who are being targeted for these so-called “safe” abortions.
The end of Roe
Grey called the June 24, 2022, Supreme Court decision of Dobbs v. Jackson Women’s Health Organization overturning Roe “so fundamentally wrong.” She said about the decision, “I feel so emotional. Even though I’ve seen it coming, even though we’ve been hearing what’s coming, it does’t feel real.”
Over nearly 50 years, 63 million human beings have been violently killed by abortion and disposed of as medical waste. For five decades, women have been pressured and coerced into abortions and told that abortion was their only choice. Roe v. Wade may be history, but the mass genocide of innocent human beings is still raging on in America. And that is what is fundamentally wrong.
I just checked Dirty Dancing came out in 1987, she was born in 1960of it
She was in her teens by mid 70’s the pill was in wide use
She said she was young, she never said how old she was
She could have been in her 20’s
She’s haunted by her decision. This is an external attempt to rationalize her internal misery. It may look like she’s advocating, but I think she realizes the reality attached to this horrific act. Its actually the endless litany of excuses she repeats to herself - with the hope she may eventually forgive/redeem herself.
It does not seem to be successful, thus far.
There’s a surprise
Not.
I don’t understand the madness of this kind of stuff.
Some idiotic person had a video like that - Ann Barnhardt shared it.
(She’s haunted by her decision. This is an external attempt to rationalize her internal misery. It may look like she’s advocating, but I think she realizes the reality attached to this horrific act. Its actually the endless litany of excuses)
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I know right.
Very sad really
He set off the radar early on
Not as much as Liberace or Paul Lynde, but still...Lynde was funny though.
Wow Peter Marshall is still alive.
Her father was bisexual. She hung out with the wrong crowd.
FTA: dealing with STDs.....
I would not want to even shake her hand after finding that out!
Good point. By not mentioning the pedophile she is condoning his behavior. By not mentioning him she is saying it would be ok to protect the guy if he did that to her daughter too. What a phony. And the abortion scene RUINED dirty dancing and made it so queasy, not feminist.
. .”The truth is that Grey doesn’t know what her life would have been like if she had welcomed her child. She assumes she wouldn’t have had her career or “anything” at all. But her life could have been made better by her child, something most mothers say about their own lives after having a baby.”
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Her father is actor Joel Grey
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I've never seen Dirty Dancing, nor anything by Grey. But I'm astonished by all the press her nose job has gotten.
In the 1990s, I always read Ben Stein's Hollywood columns in The American Spectator. In one of them, he complained about Grey's nose job. He said she'd had a cute Jewish nose, but that she ruined her distinctiveness by getting a cookie-cutter gentile nose, like so many others in Hollywood.
I can't think of any other celebrity whose nose job has been so much discussed.
I guess there is no such thing as bad publicity when it comes to Hollywood actresses or singers/entertainers.
I do not understand it either. These young women film themselves having sex with their husbands/boyfriends/whoever and then it gets “leaked” to the internet.
These are not like the pictures a few years ago of women like Jennifer Lawrence that got hacked from the cloud. These are pictures and videos of women promoting themselves by posting porn. It basically shows that they are all whores.
Just like the women who now post on Only Fans. These are just everyday women. Not models that post to this site in various stages of dressing and undressing. Then men(mostly) pay a subscription to their account. Some of these women make a lot of money doing this. I guess it is safer than being a hooker/call girl.
It’s like so many of them deliberately answer the call to the gutter to “prove” something to someone or several someones.
One gal I liked at one of my clients nearly 30 years ago wound up marrying one of our other guys.
He was British so he had the accent..... never mind he was one of the biggest jerks on the project. Which described about 4 people there. One a contractor and the other 3 we’re Big 6 like me.
I wondered if she ever figured it out. Oh well.
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Now if only autocorrect would stop changing were to we’re.
Preview - it’s my friend.
Well....most of the time. 😜
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