Sorry it just not seem to work that way. Some women will not do it and get in one abusive relationship after another, it’s like that is all they know. I knew someone like that, no matter how kind and gentleman I was, she kept going back to the worst. I gave up. I agree she made her own misery. But I do understand that brith control options were very limited, not today they aren’t.
Look, I’ve been in this type of situation. Abortion was NEVER an option, no matter what.