Doubt you’ll find that in a Bethesda game, but there’s probably some developer out there who can serve that up for you.
Actually they do have tons of female raiders roughing it in the wilderness and rail thin female guards running around in plate armor inexplicably in post apocalyptic and medieval settings with the ratio moving toward 50% in recent games. To be fair this is the new standard. Of the major studios only Rockstar still makes an effort to preserve suspension of disbelief on this front and even that may be going to the wayside.
Agreed, but even if they do, you can probably change all of that garbage pretty easily. Bethesda has a history of releasing an extensive set of modding tools with games based on this game engine and I expect they will this time as well.