Then you could make an informed decision and the “elites” don’t like that.
The elites don’t like that at all.
I can see some circumstances where I’d get very irate about things going on in my kid’s school...such as LGBTQRSTUVXWZ or BLM indoctrination...but I wouldn’t bring a gun even if I owned one.
So I would suspect this was a “my baby wouldn’t do that” type of parent. And it’s not restricted to black people, because upper middle class white people are famous for objecting to anything that implies that their baby is not the saint of the universe, is failing his classes and is a major discipline problem...but fortunately they don’t usually bring a gun.
But as you say, the elites don’t want anybody to know the circumstances. The horror of an informed decision might make them faint.