It does sting because we see this is everyday life. I work with women who want both the advantage of being women as well as the perceived benefits of being men without those responsibilities and while defining that which is acceptable for mem rather than equal treatment for all 57 genders
Mostly "beta" males thinking that putting on a dress will entitle them to protection and less pressure to be in a provider role.
You hear of a few going the other way but not many and none of them are the "alpha" type.
I love how we designate jobs.
How I wish hubby had liked to cook or clean instead of just holding down a damn good job. Why couldn't he want to have it both ways.