He wrote a good book about his relationship with Dean Martin. But most of what I’ve read indicates he wasn’t a nice guy...and the normal behavior of famous men in the 50s/60s (Kennedy, Sinatra) was hideous. In their defense, a lot of women were happy to go along...
it was just such a different mind set
I was watching an old Betty White Show on Amazon before it goes off their site. A Date with the Angels. Women were so subservient.