I would find a better way to pay off the loan. The leftist military will be dangerous to all.
>>I would find a better way to pay off the loan.
Yea, he is clear on that - its not just about the loans - I have already pointed out that doing it just for the loans is not a good enough reason and he agrees; he is aware of that - he has the right personality for the military imo, but just isn’t sure his marriage could survive years of unexpected deployments overseas with no end, especially if he starts having kids etc. Surely lots of people make it work, but it is easier (I would think) if you knew ahead of time exactly what you were getting yourself into and your spouse was fully onboard.