Drop the "you and" out and see if it sounds right.
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He and I danced.
I danced.
He and me danced.
Me danced.
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He danced with you and me.
He danced with me.
He danced with you and I.
He danced with I.
And you and I climb over the sea to the valley.
And you and I reached out for reasons to call.