Your posts are not making sense.
Narcissism is about loving your own appearance.
How would watching porn of _other_ people do that?
What am I missing here—fill in the blanks, please.
And they think women are not narcisstic!! lol
Look at social media sometime and tell me. 55 year old women posting selfies so all of their friends can comment on how “beautiful and amazing” they are. You see, they are all beautiful and amazing... No matter how old or unattractive they are. And if you don’t agree, then you are a dreaded mysoginist!
Look up narcissism.
When you are jerking off to some young girl, who most likely was trafficked, drugged and force into it, so you can get off, that's narcissism. You have no empathy for her. You use her, her body and then be done with it. You don't give a damn is she kills herself or gets killed. You are a narcissist if you only think about your self and your wants and not about others.... If you are married and watching porn, you are an abuser of both the wife and the women you come off too.
I’m reading here woman not liking men and men not liking woman. Both have forgotten who they are, I think.
I certainly don’t have the answers to what causes marriages to fall apart....but I’ll guarantee you there were unaddressed issues long before any visible manifestation presented itself.
Porn and infidelity are certainly the enemy of mens souls work to destroy marriages....it’s people who somehow get tangled up in it as with any sin that destroys...and that is what sin does. Both are addictive.