This is a chronic problem on FR. Pulled posts only give the reason at the link of the published post, which nothing links to after it was pulled. Poster is not provided an explanation thru any other means.
When you post, keep the page up in a tab for a while and refresh it to see replies - or, if it’s pulled, the reason. That’s the only way you’ll see the reason it gets pulled.
The moderator who pulls it enters and submits the reason. Seems FR moderators & administrators are unaware of how the poster normally won’t see that reason. How, after decades, they don’t grasp this...
We grasp it. But we really don't have the time nor the inclination (speaking for myself here) to respond to every thread, reply, mail, etc. to get personal with posters. We have quite alot to watch, monitor and handle. Most days are good - some not so good.
I can pretty much guarantee that as a whole, none of us take anything personally. We're posters too.
We handle it and move on with our lives.
So should everybody. Just MHO.