At 11 I barely had a concept of sex. Let alone “gender fluidity or non-binary.
Actually, someone told me what a homo was when I was like 10, and I thought they were joking.
At your age there wasn’t an organized cabal of perverts working hard to sexualize you. And your parents would probably have killed anyone who tried. Times have changed for the worse.
If the kid or mom has spent any time on Tik Tok, Instagram or other social media platforms recently then they have been inundated with the concept of multiple genders being “in and cool”. Some of the crap kids are subjected to is scary-
My husband and I consider ourselves helicopter parents- we thought we knew everything and everyone our daughter was doing or talking to. Well back in September she started having what I call personality changes- becoming withdrawn; mentioning homosexuality, self harm, etc. My husband and I sat down and tried to pinpoint when she started changing- we both agreed it became after we allowed her to have more access to Tik Tok, and to spend more time online with her friends. Needless to say, we pulled that plug and have put better limits on what she has access to. Tik Tok is gone and she gets 1 hour a day speaking to her friends on her phone or Facetiming them. We have noticed a drastic change back to the good.
These children are not identifying as non-binary. It is their parents (typically single mothers) who are identifying their children as non-binary, usually for the attention and the TikTok videos. It's something like Munchausen syndrome by proxy.