I think that God decided when her friend would be born. Yes, it is self-righteous.
It was a horrible day for everyone. Not just her. Try asking the family members, lady.
(Obviously not directed at you, Bob)
Julie
To be clear, Sept 11 shouldn't NOT be a celebration day for birthdays, anniversaries, etc.
But the smug attitude of the advice columnist, basically saying 9/11 is a relative nothing burger vs the condo collapse, Kabul, COVID19, etc., is utter garbage.