I’ve used plastic ones that screwed onto the faucet threads in place of the aerator just fine. Are you sure he didn’t just get heavy handed with the one you have?
https://smile.amazon.com/Rotate-Swivel-Aerator-Diffuser-Adapter/dp/B07QZPNP2J
I don’t think so, he’s pretty careful; but what’s the difference between the two offered on the item you linked?