My older brother was killed in a farm accident five days before he would have turned 16. I was 11. That was 51 years ago. It was very painful for our family.
Take your flippant attitude to the funeral of those brothers, and see what happens.
Idiot. Go smoke your dope and listen to your doper musicians.
Oh, and sorry you don't like my methods of relaxation. I now know not to invite you to my next party.
Very sorry about your brother.
I hope you eventually get over it, and see that God is in control. Even when it is impossible to see from a human perspective.