I unfortunately struggle to find what’s wrong with what SAM is saying. I wish I could say he’s full of it, but he isn’t .
I do mortgage lending and see many peoples finances .
Very unfortunate to see divorced guys with little to their name financially and find out an ex wife cleaned out their 401k or has a claim on their pension in a divorce .
Extremely rare to see the ex husband do this to the ex wife .
Divorce is a horrific thing .
It destroys families and hurts children a great deal.
But it is very one sided against men from what I have seen.
But, you're not seeing the whole story. You're seeing only one part of it.