Relationships are both pouring into each other at 100%. However, when I look at strong marriages, using my sister’s for example, they are biblically based. Brother in law is the head of their household. While my sister is the one who manages all the projects because my BIL is far too impulsive. She is the info gatherer, gives him the facts and the ultimate decision is his. He is smart enough and loves her enough to know that she won’t steer them as a couple or the family as a whole, in the wrong direction.
They respect each other’s strengths and roles in the marriage. Neither are weak pushovers. There is no do as I tell you happening there. They both respect each other’s roles.
With that said, it takes a strong man to lead and not domineer. There is a difference. A wife will follow a man who knows how to lead in love. A man who dominates, beats his chest and bellows “do as I say” without...unfortunately can’t simple have his oxygen supply removed.
Without “love” forgot that word
Kinda reminds me of Capt John Sheridan and Ambassador Delenn from Babylon 5, different roles and expertise ( Naval Officer/ Diplomat) but they loved and respected each other plus complemented each other which is why B5 was able to survive all the crap in Season 3 and 4.