Don’t comment on their looks? I thought women liked to be told they’re beautiful. I suppose that’s not true heh.
Yes, women love compliments; however, creepy control freaks don’t dish those out, they consistently use criticism instead.
I dated one of these when I was young, stupid, and thought I knew what true love was all about. He was a professional at nitpicking everything I wore or did, making me feel unattractive and never supporting me or my goals.
I finally dumped his beta-ass.
Now, I’m married to an incredible man, we have a great family, I have a successful career, and during our first year of dating I won a regional beauty pagent. My husband never displayed any of the behaviors in the article. He is an alpha male; he doesn’t need to tear me down to lift himself up.
I know some FReepers may not care for this article but had took in account number 2,4,6, that would have saved me from a bad date in Germany and I would have got the heck out of there early, some people are just not worth a damn, and best to leave them be. I do not date women who try to tell me what to do, think or believe, plus act like petulant children, never again.
The article is based on the premise that nothing should ever go wrong in a marriage. I have been controlling at times, and its due to a mental health issue, which I am working on. Thank God my wife didn’t just skip away but was able to forgive.