Ex wives can do this with big child support too especially if they remarried another rich mark
You have zero control how she spends child support ...
My ex married PJ rich....husband three
I still doled out 44k/year
She called it her allowance..lol
Price I paid for joint custody and she left me
I am sorry. I hope your kids see things clearly as they mature.
There should be a periodic accounting of the use of the funds as part of the settlement, to assure that they are spent on the children.