I was just teasing. A gift some men have, maybe not me though. I figure women have plenty of experience with creepy men and consequently are very good at spotting them. You can call it intuition. I call it wisdom.
My theory is women protect the house by discerning character. Men do so by detecting breeches. It’s general but I think everyone has their talents and often these fall under gender specificity. Women being stronger in prevention than in the physical.
I do sense the humor in the I told you so comment. It is an unpleasant thing for people to do or to put up with but hard to resist the verbal dope slap when husbands act like dumbasses Sigh.
Women actually have very little discernment, for the simple reason they pick men like shopping at the mall. They do not care to know what is under the hood of the vehicle nor the character of men (and women). Men know because when they dig ditches and put power lines up, they know what fabricates a real man. Women are incapable for the most part of understanding the mechanics of character in a man, hence why the adulation for the Obamas and Bidens and what not Hillary trash.
Young men only have blind spots when these are provoked by the boob bait or the media fantasy of the Xena warrior princess of discernment.