Posted on 04/16/2021 5:39:32 PM PDT by DIRTYSECRET
Lolo Jones is opening up about her dating life in a candid social media post about the difficulty that she's faced in her quest to find a partner. The 38-year-old Olympic hurdler and bobsledder has been open about romantic relationships in the past, sharing that she was a virgin at the age of 37 and is saving herself for marriage. She later said that her candidness was a mistake, telling Kevin Hart, "That killed all my dates after that," during a conversation in January 2020.
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That sounds exactly like my daughter and she is 31.
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#8. Re “My toboggan is faster than her bobsled”. It all depends on what product you use to wax it.
“That sounds exactly like my daughter and she is 31.”
Dang it!!
There you people go giving me some small hope for the future.
I got a brand new pair of roller skates, you got a brand new key.
Mixed race issues and more
Shame
Thank you, that was great.
I don’t go very fast but I go pretty far... That’s a great line.
Lolo is certainly an alpha female. She’s strong mentally and physically. Many men are intimidated by this, but some men find it attractive-and some are merely bent up conquering.
Watching her in the interview posted in this thread, she displays her alpha. However, as a solid Christ follower, there is an undercurrent of humility that is characterized by these beliefs, if they are sincere and there is no evidence that her beliefs are insincere, as celibacy is a foundational hallmark along with her clear proclamation of this tightly held belief.
Biblically speaking, a man is to be a sacrificial leader for his wife. This requires tremendous strength of character, conviction and humility, equal to, or possibly beyond which even Lolo is living. Godly men such as this are very rare and this is her challenge. But she’s also physically strong, which adds another dimension.
The world is full of temptations. For the strong man it is easy to fall into sexual activity, because there are so many weak women. So too weak men. Most fall to temptation while single.
Lolo’s life and beliefs have set a high mark and at this level the number of compatible suitors is very limited.
May she meet just the right man and together become one flesh. In Him ALL things are possible
I have a “sister” that is saving herself for marriage. We grew up together. She’s 59 and never been married. What I know that no one else knows is that she is filthy stinking rich. She’s always had entry level jobs but she also holds commercial real estate.
I took her to a party because I needed a date and my siblings thought it was gross.
And what killed her dates from like 18 to 37?
One thing that women refuse to accept: women are at their peak attractiveness and desirability at around 18-25, and it's generally downhill from there.
THAT is the age to find a husband. If you wait until 37, the pickings will be slim.
Yes, she's still cute, but she is not interested in average men. She wants Prince Charming to come sweep her off her feet, and the princes have better options.
You don't need to be a prince to charm a girl. Make her feel like the most important person in the world and she will date you. Once dating, ever so subtly make it known to her that you have the capacity to walk away never to look back, and she'll be yours forever.
I don't know why this works, but it does.
Women want the kind of guy who has lots of options, but wants HER.
It’s worked for me for over 30 years of marriage.
Oh, c’mon! If at 38 you haven’t found a partner you’re either not looking or you have stupid standards. Some people are REALLY delusional.
I take offense!
I shower EVERY morning!
Here in the Philippines (and China. and Japan. and Malaysia/Singapore/Indonesia, and doubtless other places in Asia), after 25, that’s it. You are a “left-behind girl”. If you are 38 (or even 28) and still a “virgin”, there is that certain man-hating attitude that comes with that as well. I’m guessing, however, she had her carpet cleaned and cleaned other carpet on more than one occasion.
“My friend told me she could never get dates because all the guys figured she must be going out with someone already. Her attractiveness was intimidating to all the post-pubescent boys.”
If you think the problem is that simple, you’re missing about 2/3 of the story.
I agree. Women don’t date down. You have to have something to offer. Looks, money, intelligence, humor ... something. Then there is the big one - confidence.
“I agree. Women don’t date down. You have to have something to offer. Looks, money, intelligence, humor ... something. Then there is the big one - confidence.”
It’s mostly looks. The vast majority of the ridiculous lies we are taught as children about relationships revolve around pretending it’s not solely about looks, both directions.
That is and how it always has been, and we are better off being up front about that rather than pretending otherwise.
The difference between a man who is “confident” and one who is a “creep” is whether or not she is attracted to him physically, for the most part.
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