You would have to be stupid to “shush” a ferel.
Ok. So you’re on a date with your lady. You know better than to start something with a feral. She doesn’t. She’s confrontational because in this ‘man’s world’ she can get away with being a bitch. Next thing you know you have no choice but to defend her and you end up getting your butt kicked. I’m sure she appreciate and more importantly understand it.
Never be afraid of evil. Be prepared for it.