He is right but, discretion is important too.
If she had thrown a self-pity party that may not have happened.
I'll be blunt: it the tables were turned we'd be torching these Republicans. Indeed, we beat up Obama for golfing during natural disasters, and Carolyn McCarthy in NY who made a career out of gun control off her husband's murder.
Cruz made a rookie error, and Holtorf picked the wrong words - he coulda said "My good man, pushing Red Flag laws will simply guarantee that more innocent people like your son will die. I am asking you, to honor the twelve by overturning these hideous infringements on civil liberties."
The knee-jerk defense of stupid comments by Republicans, of course, is founded upon the fear of the opponent gaining yardage off the yellow flag. But red-flag challenges shouldn't be wasted on clear penalties, and in this case Haltorf jumped offsides. He doesn't have to go on an apology tour, but we don't have to go on a defense of his penalty.