My real time experience is pretty fresh
I was on tinder last summer.....a fair amount
It's not what you're describing as strictly hook up.
Nor is it strictly hook up for young people ..it actually their go to dating app....or was ....there could be another one now
My daughter ..32....met her Christian husband on tinder
You can specify what you're looking for
Casual short term
Dating
Love
I myself had better luck on bumble and match
Match had more available 35-59 year old single women
Bumble had better looking women....
There are a lot of available pretty women out there looking for a relationship ....I mean a lot....it's sad....beautiful middle aged southern girls alone marriage failed but today it's not like before where the man cheated and left her although that's still the majority....a lot of these women just got tired of the man and the expectations or wanted more....they learned to hate what they once loved....I felt sorry for the ones who were petty took care of themselves and did everything right and he still dumped them at 50 for younger babe....it was sad....and either marriage failure even after 20 years ....is way too common and it's gone up because now women leave too for selfish reasons
For simple sex for men you're expected to pretty much pay for it if you're over 35
Tinder will toss girls for that..
Sugar daddy and seeking arrangements ....cut to the chase....older men younger women...a sure thing
Ashley Madison is for swingers or cheaters and seemed to me to be for wives in marriages that either wanted another woman sexually in the mix or less frequently desired another man...where like you alluded to
They ask openly for the third party to have a large penis....or be black
I did see one ad where a comely older woman said her husband had been unable to have sex for years and years and she was looking for an understands partner....the ad looked real but it could have been constructed
That was a 7 month window into my life....temporary....and that's what I saw and learned
Disagree if u must
“They ask openly for the third party to have a large penis....or be black”
What the heck, havent they heard of that nation in Africa where European women go to have that fulfilled lol.