Well it’s also found in Strict Dom/Sub relationships where the woman is a dominatrix.
She control’s the man’s...er...you know.
Working in NYC just gives one a vast sea of knowledge :)
Funny thing, and most people are unaware that it’s the SUB who is control of the entire domination session. The DOM is only obeying orders.
Really. I dated a professional dominatrix. No, I wasn’t into the games. The relationship was interesting, but rather short lived.