If i KNEW the rules I would understand and I would obey.
That said, there is no greater stessor or tauma than losing ones helpmate and spouse...followed closely by losing one’s mother.
I’m giving Jim and John a Looooooooong pass.
Rules on FR sometimes come in the form of customs, traditions, and tribal knowledge. You learn them over time.
You don’t post blog links without incurring the attention of Humblegunner, you always check with Lazamataz about the girls, and you provoke the wrath of the Viking kitties when you poke our beloved host.
Twitter and Facebook are becoming persona non grata here and I support that movement. They’d silence us if they could so why give them a voice here?