I don’t think so but it’s certainly a possibility. That’s why I was asking for prayers in the first place. I’m worried about his reaction to the news.
Your feelings for your son in law aside, I would trust my daughter’s feelings. Should she lose her life, it is gone forever and in reality, you would lose two times. But , in reality, you never know. You have some tough decisions to make that can only be made by you. I wish you good luck. Since no one knows what the future holds, you just have do the best you can, based on what you know. Again, good luck.