Your feelings for your son in law aside, I would trust my daughter’s feelings. Should she lose her life, it is gone forever and in reality, you would lose two times. But , in reality, you never know. You have some tough decisions to make that can only be made by you. I wish you good luck. Since no one knows what the future holds, you just have do the best you can, based on what you know. Again, good luck.
Thank you. I think he’d hurt himself before he hurt anyone else, but who knows in a situation like this. One thing I do know is...2020 sucks big time.