There is a reason that she is leaving while he is gone. It could ne the difference between her living and dying. I would trust and support my daughter. You do as you please. How do you know for a fact that he is not of the “If I can’t have her no one else will either”?
I don’t think so but it’s certainly a possibility. That’s why I was asking for prayers in the first place. I’m worried about his reaction to the news.