I have a distant cousin who was a low level gangster and shot his ex’s boyfriend between the eyes.
Was dong have roids and is now serving life.
His pop left the family for some tramp when he was 40 then died of a heart attack from coke.
It builds a lot of hate in a kid.
Ironically, the other son because a very prominent lawyer.
So yes, one can prevail but on the average, having a disaster for a father or no father at all makes you much likely to go down a very bad path.
“Was dong have roids and is now serving life.”
Mess with the roids and you’ll shrink your dong. Beans, too.