In a country where there are 500 million firearms in private ownership, many of us don’t know a single person that owns gunz. For this the interweb chit-chat forums and youtubes were created. Best advice you can get is free, from total strangers.
Actually you probably do. You just don't know it.
Outside of my family you can count the number of people who know I carry on the fingers of one hand and three them are "need to know".
To many people a gun is a tool. You keep it with you, you learn how to use it properly but you are not interested in it as a hobby. It is like there are many people who drive a car but only a small percentage are into CARS.
Knowing all the X-spurts on here, my best advice was given. :-)