Men don't get hit on non-stop by women, the way women do starting at say age 12 or so. Women have very finely honed filters; except they become ineffective once she has tingles for the guy; at that point her rationalization hamster takes over and she makes excuses for everything.
Until she writes him off and blames all the other men for his lack of interest or commitment.
Have to say the horror stories I've heard women tell about what ends up in their inbox or chat window anytime they go on one of the "dating" sites or the likes of Tinder (which is pure meat market stuff) just makes me shake my head.
Some guys seemingly never advanced beyond 12-15 years old sending women they don't even know pics of their junk and crude pick-up lines.
That just makes it more difficult for the rest of us who do our best to live with integrity and respect for others while trying to date.