[Tench_Coxe]

The article links this to dating in the past. The problem is that now there exists a large degree of narcissism and expectations way out of line with reality.
Having standards to meet, yes. But just make sure you live up to the same standards you set for others.

[Bigg Red]

:: The problem is that now there exists a large degree of narcissism and expectations way out of line with reality.::

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Bingo! On top of that, having sexual relations is now seen as a part of a date. That is a fairly new and destructive concept.