I am caring for my 90yr old mom right now, hardest job I have EVER had in my life OMG some days it is hard to believe she is my mom!!! As they get older they become VERY mean and nasty I understand that they don’t feel well and find it hard getting older but GEEZE don’t take it out on your family!!! I have a brother but if he EVER came by to give me a break I would just fall over!! A daughters a daughter all of her life, a son is a son till he takes a wife!!! When my mom found herself not able to drive any longer I relocated changed jobs uprooted my entire life to take care of her and my dang brother lived in the same damn city as she does!!! Lived in her home first year BUT that was an impossible situation so I purchased a home 2 houses down when it went up for sale!! Taking care of an elderly parent so they can stay in their home and be comfortable is not an easy job, do whatever you can for your sibling!!
“I am caring for my 90yr old mom”
You are doing the right thing! But as you said, can be very difficult especially if other siblings don’t help.
Just know your efforts and care for your mom will be rewarded — knowing that you did all you could for her will give you peace in your heart when she’s gone; and then also the Lord will reward you at His judgment.