“I am caring for my 90yr old mom”
You are doing the right thing! But as you said, can be very difficult especially if other siblings don’t help.
Just know your efforts and care for your mom will be rewarded — knowing that you did all you could for her will give you peace in your heart when she’s gone; and then also the Lord will reward you at His judgment.
You are doing the right thing! But as you said, can be very difficult especially if other siblings don’t help.
We have/had a lawyer who insisted that my parents set up a "Care Agreement" with my sibling. Sib received a paycheck, took out/paid taxes, SS, Medicare, etc. Now there is an employment record PLUS my dad, bless his heart, was helping sibling out, but did not recognize just what care involved and that is was worth A GREAT DEAL.
He always said sib was caring for my mom, not recognizing that HE needed care as well.