My only point was it was more than she could handle. Those kids weren’t even able to speak. She probably had to do everything for them, and they were never going to be normal no matter how much she did for them. The rest of her life was going to be entirely consumed by their care, and it doesn’t sound like she was getting much help from the rest of the family. Let grandma do it. Everybody has a breaking point. I would not even attempt what she did. As Dirty Harry said, “A man has got to know his limitations.”
And I agree with you.
I still wish she had called Social Services and taken action to have them “taken off her hands”....they had special needs she was no equipped to provide.