Dolly , hubby is a Sons of The American Legion commander.
does the title represent ‘the boss’? I used the word president. so he is in charge. He surely does have a great side kick with you. I know many couple where he is in charge or very active in various fraternal groups and often the wife does not participate except in maybe special parties.. and then she is a guest = not worker/helper to the cause. You both do an extraordinary job.