Posted on 10/09/2019 9:05:48 AM PDT by SeekAndFind
If you want a slut, then you've got great advice.
“As the old saying goes....why buy the cow when the milk’s free?”
Another one is “When you by shoes, you try them on first.”
You were the honoree so she did not break Rule #2.
STDs, abortions, etc.
But your parents usually didn’t act on those horny urges. If they had, there wouldn’t have been all that free love in the ‘60s or friends with benefits later.
Unicorn. Another word the left has twisted.
https://www.amazon.com/Finding-Love-Your-Clark-Warren/dp/1561790885
There is a section in that shows you how to eliminate a person as a potential mate in two dates or less; not that you can determine if someone is a soul-mate, but eliminate those who would never be a match.
I dated a VERY successful Mary Kay National Sales Director for about three months. This statement is very true.
bkmk
Don't ask your parents what a "Coney Island Whitefish" is.
Which rule(s) will be the deal breaker to get a 3rd or 4th date?
I've got many neighbors with 14-15-16 yo girls, and let me assure you they are being programmed to follow the steps outlined in the article. There's not a single dad - or mom for that matter - who's advocating their daughters act like tramps. There's another generation right ahead of them, and the women who have gone on to develop professional careers either have steady boyfriends or don't date.
And, it should be noted these behavior norms are occurring in a SoCal beach town, so if there was going to be any adherence to 'fast' lifestyles advocated by intellectuals intent on destroy core cultural values, you'd expect it to be here. Now, it's not to say it doesn't happen, but it's more of a socio-economic factor, not the result of cultural propaganda.
At the end of the day, nature trumps nurture every time. Both males and females are the result of millions of years of trait selection and other evolutionary pressures. You don't have to be a lady genius to figure out how to attract a man - just follow long established, hard wired instincts.
“my undergraduates tell me they try hard not to fall in love during college, imagining that would mess up their plans.”
Something young people often miss, because of the size of the pool, is the number of people they pass on because there is no meaningful attraction. They are mislead by the RELATIVELY few who really hit them hard. At 14, 18, 22 there seems to be “a lot” of likely candidates but as a percentage of the whole it is really almost nothing. By age 30 the pool is much smaller PLUS everyone in it has been somewhere doing something with someone and THAT can REALLY change them. (Even if they’re still single they’re not who they were years ago...
The socialists of today put me in mind of someone walking into a bar and calling out, " A round of drinks for the house! Who's paying?"
My wife and I have shared our finances equally throughout our marriage. In todays world it's almost impossible to raise a family if you don't. Why is dating different?
I can quickly name off, without really thinking about it too hard, at least 10 young men & women (20-24) who are engaged or married.
These include relatives (cousins, nieces/nephews) and children of friends. In every case it is essentially the first boy/girl friend they've known since HS or met @ college.
In retrospect, it's sort of amazing how deeply instinctive behavior is programmed in the bald ape - or all other animals for that matter. Just yesterday they were (little) kids, then they got their drivers license, then they went off to school, and the next thing you hear is they're engaged.
It happens very fast, since we're all still operating under the traditional 40 year old life span rules. However, it's the outliers, the sad people who historically never got married who drive content sales. Out in the 'normal' real world, people still tend to hook up very young with their first love.
Exactly. Most men will be long gone if you don’t put out.”
Dead right. But by the same token I can name 10 girls I knew between 18 and 22 who could have said ‘wait’ and I’d have agreed no questions asked. And I’m NOT talking about goddesses I only knew from afar.
My wife and I did the same thing. There were times when she wasn't working to either to raise our kids (I helped!) or when she was ill. We were a good team and when we finally became empty nesters, she got cancer and died back in June 2017. Cancer sucks! I've since retired and moved out West to Colorado Springs to start a new life. I'm ready now for a relationship with a good woman, but NOT ready to play the dating game. It's been 38 years since I've been a single guy in the dating scene and a lot has changed since then. I'd rather meet someone crossing paths during day to day life. That usually works out well! Wish me luck!
Women need to try it—and find out!
Life is the great teacher.
Some years ago a family friend lost her husband and I told her to go and love some more. She was angry that I would say that. She was still grieving and not ready to envision life ahead. I hope you can find someone in your life to share what lies ahead. I'm sure your first wife would too.
FReegards, FRiend
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