It can depend on the delivery of the message. When I see a person wearing a Veteran’s cap, I’ll make my way over to them, with a genuine smile and my hand out to shake theirs. I look them in the eye, thank them, and move on. If it’s a Vietnam Veteran, I add “Welcome home.” I keep it simple, straightforward, and in the manner of a private conversation.
When thanks are given to me, my response is, “I appreciate that.”
I agree totally with you. I am always pleasantly surprised when someone approaches me and thanks me for my service. And I always thank them for their thoughtfulness. Each time it happens, and it happens a lot in Tennessee, it warms my heart.